Monday, September 25, 2006

September Referrals are in..........

logged on to the CCAA website to see if there was news of the Sept referrals...they have matched up to August 9th - (remember if anyone is still reading !) our papers were logged in Aug 31st ...........getting closer , so they have managed to match 18 days worth of papers this month - if the same continues we will be referred in November that would mean travel in January.....but it is too hard to speculate and we just have to sit and be patient...we are on the homeward run....!

Tuesday, September 19, 2006

more rumours

I have tried not to look at them but it seems as if there is a rumour going around that this months' referrals will take us up to August 15th....got quite excited when I read this .. but took a long deep breath and thought I must not let myself get too excited.

Yesterday bit the bullet and booked another holiday - that way hopefully the wait will be shorter. One week in a funky looking hotel in Gran Canaria - if anyone is still reading this drivvle then you can find the website at http://www.seaside-hotels.de/ - go to the Palm Beach - it is very seventies having been updated about four years ago...

now it is cooler and not raining I have taken to hacking away in the garden - bought lots of Alliums and finally got around to diggin up really bad turf and moss form one side of the garden so I can put down some gravel to create a seating area under the pear tree...might be abit dangerous at this time of year though as I spend most days picking up rotten pears! also cut the hedge today - is this some sort of surreal nesting! I seem to remember my friend SImone laying a patio when heavily pregnant , perhaps this is the adoptive equivalent!

will keep the blog updated once I know about the September referrals - should be hearing things in the next few days

Over and out

Thursday, September 14, 2006



slow slow slow .....the sun has almost stopped shining and we really thought that we may have had a referral by now but things in China are going at a snail's pace.

These are some pictures from my week staying on my sister's farm. We did lots of lovely things like mushrooming, blackberrying and feeding the calves....as well as taking my nieces to see the film Cars that was surprisingly good - I was quite surprised!

Re CHina and the never ending wait - There is a scarily addictive blog that I try not to look at too often - it is called Rumor Queen ( US site ) and it looks at referral dates and talks to all the adoption agencies over there - they seem to think at the moment that referrals this month ( end September ) will cover half of August papers and October referrals will cover the remaining August papers - that would be us ....but who knows I thry not read those sites otherwise it could send you completely bonkers!..

IN the last couple of weeks there has also been a number of articles talking about intercountry adoption in magazines - a particularly awful one in a new magazine called In The Know - that talked about baby tourism and adoptive parents arriving in hotels in CHina to look at a line up of babies and choose...complete rubbish!....I was so angry on reading it I had to bin it straight away ...so don't look. On the other hand there is a great article in Red Magazine this month which really looks at the issues and examines why people decide to adopt from another country. Well written without any sensationalism....